The Perfect Partner

Have you heard of the legendary Perfect Partner? The mythical being whom you dreamt about as a child? The knight in shining armour, who would sweep you off your feet? Or perhaps you dreamt of being the knight, rescuing the princess or prince and sweeping them off their feet, leaving them ever-grateful and admiring of [...]

The perfect imperfect

Go outside now, and find the perfect leaf. One with no discolouration, no marks, no curled edges. Then go and find the perfect flower - all its petals intact, no wilting. Then go and find a feather, with all it's hairs intact, untainted by mud or dirt. If you found this task difficult, or near [...]

Your Perfect Day

I want you and your partner to put some time aside this evening to dream. Create a den in your living room, or bedroom. Surround yourselves with cushions and blankets. Light some candles, burn some incense. Turn out the lights. Put on some gentle music on a low volume. And dream together. Use your imaginations to [...]

Painful Orgasms

If you’ve ever experienced pain during orgasm, don’t panic, you’re not alone.  I was interviewed recently by Refinery 29 on this rare but very distressing problem. Read the article by clicking on the link below:- Read the Article Here

Sex and older people

I was interviewed again recently for an article in the Independent. I was asked to comment on some of the considerations that some people have later on in life in their sex lives. Read the article by clicking on the link below:- Read the Independent Article Here http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/sex-therapy-elderly-old-men-women-positions-viagra-support-aid-a7584366.html

Re-routing the River: Jessica and Steve’s Story: Part Three

Sometimes, when you're dissatisfied with your relationship, you want changes to be made quickly. But what if you're being unrealistic? What if you're being unfair to your partner? What if you need to adjust your expectations? Positive change in your relationship is absolutely possible - but lasting change takes time, work and commitment. In this [...]

Re-routing the River: Jessica and Steve’s Story: Part Two

Sometimes, when you're dissatisfied with your relationship, you want changes to be made quickly. But what if you're being unrealistic? What if you're being unfair to your partner? What if you need to adjust your expectations? Positive change in your relationship is absolutely possible - but lasting change takes time, work and commitment. In this [...]

Re-routing the River: Jessica and Steve’s Story: Part One

Sometimes, when you're dissatisfied with your relationship, you want changes to be made quickly. But what if you're being unrealistic? What if you're being unfair to your partner? What if you need to adjust your expectations? Positive change in your relationship is absolutely possible - but lasting change takes time, work and commitment. In this [...]

Better sleep ‘boosts sex life for older women’

Getting a good night's sleep may be key to a better sex life for women over 50, according to a study. I was recently interviewed by Boots WebMD on this - read the article by clicking on the link below:- Read the article here