“Blow, blow, blow thou Winter wind
Thou art not so unkind
As a man’s ingratitude”
It’s all too easy to focus on the hardships sometimes. The things our partner has done in the past that we now resent, the things they haven’t done that we wish they would. Sometimes, we are left questioning the whole relationship itself.
So many couples get to this stage and then ask me how they can make it work. How they can come together and transcend their challenges.
As you move deeper into the Winter of your relationship, rather than being led by how cold the wind blows, or how dark it’s become, it’s far better to focus instead on the things you do have control over.
For example, your focus.
Concentrate instead on these questions:-
- What do you love about your partner?
- What are your relationship’s strengths?
- What can you do to make your relationship even better?
- What motivates you to stay in the relationship?
- What are you grateful for?
It’s in this shift in focus, away from the cold and dark and towards something more positive, that you’ll find warmth and light.
If you’re struggling in your relationship, let me to be a guiding light to help you through the cold and darkness. Contact me by clicking on the button below, and we can discuss how I can help you.
Deepening your connection with Nature.